Being good-looking is not fundamentally about being able to put on make-up, have a cool style of dress, or fine hair. Those things are just a bonus;) It's about that feel look good!
I had very low self-esteem when I was 12-15 years old. What I did every day was to stand in front of the mirror, and instead of staring blindly at the nose I was dissatisfied with, or counting all the pimples, I said to myself "damn what I look like today! ”
I did not really think so, but the brain still began to believe it in the end! And it really worked! It's like faking a smile long enough, in the end you feel much happier.
Found a movie clip on Julia's blog, it's about 20 minutes long but really worth seeing!
The point is not "face it until you make it"- to make everyone else believe that you are good.
Without ”fake it until you become it" - you should self feel that one actually is Good!