Today I listened to this interview with Helena Bergström on Värvet.se, and feels a high recognition factor when she talks about film reviews. She says that you can get so incredibly different reviews same film, because everyone thinks differently and you never get away from that. And the point of it all was that the most important thing is not to listen too much to what others think (while still working on the film) that you lose your own vision that one had from the beginning.
It is namely very easy to start changing things due to what others give for advice and tips (even though it is of course positive with feedback) but you must not forget what you think is good and bad, because then you will at least not be happy in the end.
And the same goes for having a small business. Had I listened to everyone's advice, I would never have been where I am today. When talking about your business with people, do not feel bad if many people come up with opinions and advice that are basically good but that you can not or do not want to implement. For an idea can be super good, without being super good for you and your company. You can not listen to everyone, then you will be divided, but as long as you listen to yourself, it will be good anyway.
Examples of advice I have received in the last two years:
- ”You should apply for extra work in kindergarten or ICA because you barely take out any salary“It's a bit tight in the wallet in the beginning when all the money that comes in is put back into the company in order to grow, but if you can afford to live without working extra, that's the best thing. Starting your own business is more than just a full-time job, so why waste time on something that does not advance your career?
- ”Go to Öregrund in the summer and face paint children in the center!“Also one thing that can give quick money, a good day, but it is not so rewarding if you want to build a brand.
- ”Promote more that you do bridal makeup, and go around to different cities and makeup“Weddings are a very good target group if you freelance as a makeup artist, but it is incredibly time-consuming to go around and put on make-up. I do not want to make a living from making up for others, but want to work with the blog, webshop and products :) Going to another city for a bridal make-up basically takes a whole day, and on that day I can instead get lots of work done as takes me where I am want to come. As I said, it is important not to forget your vision, and to think long-term.
These tips are basically good advice, but not something I have personally listened to because I think more long-term. And you get tips and advice like this almost all the time, every time you talk about your job with another person. Which of course is fun and good, but you have to learn to turn it off as well.
Summary - Do not always listen to what others say but think one step further, even if it may be a good piece of advice / tip. And do not forget why you started ♥
Now I will cover the legends after a long but incredibly rewarding working day! :)
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